Thursday 27 August
Today is my first day back with my host family. They greeted me at the door and were genuinely pleased to see me. I gave them the small bag of dates that I brought as a small present, which is customary for someone who leaves for any long duration of time. For dinner, we had a spaghetti-like noodle and some meat and surprisingly, we ate it on the roof, which is more like an unfinished patio than anything. My comprehension of Wolof is growing, but not at the speed my family would like. They have all gone through the French system of schooling which is pure memorization. The American system offers more choices and learning techniques, and I have trouble conveying this to my hosts. And for now, this language is just a bunch of sounds to me.
The family is fasting during Ramadan, which means I eat breakfast and lunch alone in my room. I can’t complain though, because it’s nice to finally get some alone time without someone wondering if I’m sick or dead. This culture is very social and “personal time” just doesn’t exist. Breakfast is always the same; a baguette with butter and chocolate. Lunch and Dinner are always something different and I’ve yet to have the same meal twice. Lunch will most likely be leftovers from dinner the night before, which isn’t all that safe, and dinner is business as usual with everyone together.
Islam is so engrossed in everyday life and when I ask a question, there often seems to be a religious implication hidden in the answer. When I asked at what time the prayers were, my question was met with an explanation of how it is important to talk with God. I’m wondering what Senegalese Muslims are taught about Christians. So far, it appears Christians are not the infidel, just less connected to God. The call to prayer and various other religious announcements and songs are blasted though the speaker system that runs throughout the city. I haven’t quite decided which is more bothersome, the conniption ridden donkey next door, or incomprehensible Arabic being piped though my window at 6am.
Friday 28 August
Since it is Ramadan, much of nothing is going on. Life here has slowed even further because, in addition to being hot, everyone is hungry and irritable. Everyone fasting gets up before sunrise and eats and then goes without during the day. I eat lunch with the little children and it’s usually a meal of leftovers. The fast is broken every night by an announcement from the mosque and is shortly followed by some snack. Dinner is still at its usual time.
This morning I had a technical activity to complete. Each member in the Small Enterprise Development group was to find a local business and ask a series of question to better understand how the business operates and how business in general goes on in Senegal. My language teacher gathered us at 8:30 and we proceeded down the street until we came to a decent looking boutique. She asked the owner if he would acquiesce to an interview and the owner accepted. Then my language teacher looked at my fellow trainee and informed him that she would be back to pick him up in 30 minutes. I wasn’t under the impression that we would be left alone to ask questions. After leaving the boutique we searched for a tailor and found one willing to be interrogated by a “Tubob.” Again, one of my fellow trainees was left to fend for herself. Now it was my turn, and Lady Luck was not with me. We went to five separate stores and the owner wasn’t around in any of them. This process took well over an hour because my language teacher explained why we were there before asking if the owner was around. Finally, we found one, but he didn’t speak much French, and my Wolof is pitiful. I looked at my language teacher and informed her politely that this would go nowhere fast, and she told me that I would manage. I didn’t. I think I found out the owner is originally from Mbour and buys his wares from there too. When I asked about his mark-up, he just looked blankly at me. Culturally, the Senegalese don’t discuss money and business affairs with people they don’t know. So I’m not upset the owner wouldn’t tell me the details of his business. It was not the most productive morning and now, for my own sake, I need to do it on my own.
Saturday 29 August
Overall, today was a pretty good day. My comprehension is growing and I’m getting over the first hump of learning any language and I’m starting to hear words rather than just sounds. This morning, I tried again with my language professor to find a local business owner who was both willing to have an interview and spoke French. I found one who owned a small hardware store and asked him my questions. He was generous and patience and didn’t seem to mind.
I went to the market today to buy fabric for 2 more pants. These two will be made in a more western style and I hope the tailor can add a pocket in the back for my wallet. It took a while to come up with some fabric while in the market because every pattern I preferred was for women and it’s not easy to only enough fabric for a pair of pants. Usually, fabric is sold in enough quantity to make pants and the accompanying booboo, which is a neck to ankle shirt.
While at the market with my host mother, she asked where I got the white t-shirt I was wearing. I asked her why she wanted to know and she replied that she wanted to buy me another. I informed her it wasn’t necessary because I had brought 16 from the USA. She seemed puzzled, and after a few more inquiries, it was determined she, and unfortunately the rest of the family, all believed I had only one t-shirt. After I picked myself off the floor, I explained that I brought many t-shirts because they are cheap and easy to clean. Maybe I should change it up a little.
Sunday 30 August.
In class today I mixed up the verbs “to sell” and “to study” in Wolof and promptly informed my class that each morning in the market I study mangos. It was the highlight of my morning. Not much has happened today, so I’ll reflect on some of the oddities I’ve seen.
• Plastic bags make excellent non-degradable diapers
• Children are more “free-range” than the chickens
• Plastic teapots are better used for washing than tea
• Don’t worry about erecting fences, your goats know the way home
• If it ain’t broke, it will be soon
• A wheel on a stick trumps kick- the-can
• If it matches, don’t wear it
• Hand-me-downs are gender neutral
• Q: What’s for dinner? A: What do you think? Fish and rice, it’s what we have every night.
• I only ever see the one discarded sandal lying in the street. Does that imply the other was worn home solo?
Thursday 3 September
Class this morning was routine; said hi to more people than I can count or remember. Every time I turn around, there is someone new to remember and it’s impolite to forget someone’s name. I’m still amazed at how important greetings are in Senegal; people even to the extreme as to ask where your family members are. I usually have no idea. A typical greeting is a monotone mumbling of a set list of questions which last a good 30 seconds. So, typically, I have to start before I see the person, or at least until the second they come into ear shot.
After an hour or so of language class, we headed off to do our technical training activity. I look forward to these, because they allow us to have a change of pace. Today we got to talk to the mango ladies. Da Da Da Duuuum. The mango ladies are a force to be reckoned with. They all congregate in one area of the city, which happens to be very close to my house. On both sides of the streets they sit with their identical mangos all piled up in mango pyramids. Upon arrival, we were swiftly asked to be seated, and the flood gates opened. I was asked more about what I eat for dinner than about where I am from. I was asked, what I study, how’s my mother, will I marry their daughter, am I healthy, do I like Senegal? But in the end I did pick up a few new vocabulary words and I think I might be engaged.
Anyways, I learned how the mango ladies acquire their mangos. Once a week, they all travel to a farmer with their baskets and collect as many mangos as they want. They then pay by basket and return home to sell their mangos. They lady I interviewed said she buys ten baskets from the farmer and sells, on average, one a day. Some days are better than others and what is left is eaten by her family. At the end of it all, I bought 7 mangos for 500 CFA, or about $1. Needless to say, I eat lots of mangos.